A relationship isn't defined by the number of kisses you exchange a day, or the number of likes the pictures that you post on Facebook together may receive. A relationship is about being with someone who makes you happy in ways that no one else can. A true lover is someone that sees your potential and that will push you to achieve it by all means.
A real relationship is about helping both participants in it to grow, not just one or the other. Some tend to feel as though their relationship must be validated by others when the only people who can really evaluate a relationship are the participants in it.
So if you are experiencing a relationship right now in which the opposite may be true, then it may very well be time for you to re-evaluate the continuing of this relationship. Remember that a relationship isn't about any one party. Its not about you or me, it is about "us" !